What to Do When a Caregiver Got Everything in a New Will

✓ Verified September 05, 2026

caregiver got everything in a new will — if that sentence describes your family right now, take a breath. This is hard, and you are allowed to feel angry and sad at the same time. However, this situation is more common than you think, and there is a clear path forward.

Every state has rules for questioning a will. Some states even assume a caregiver gift is invalid until the caregiver proves otherwise. You do not have to figure this out alone, and you do not have to figure it out today.

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The short answer: First, get a copy of the new will from the probate court file, because it becomes a public record once probate opens. Next, write down the date it was signed and compare that date to the caregiver’s start date. Then contact your state’s probate court self-help center or a free legal-aid office right away. Deadlines to challenge a will are short in most states — sometimes 90 days. Talking to a licensed probate attorney early costs you nothing in many first consultations, and it protects your options.

Where You Stand: Caregiver Got Everything In A New Will

A will can leave property to anyone, including a paid or unpaid caregiver. However, the law watches caregiver gifts closely. Courts know that a caregiver often controls food, medicine, visitors, and phone calls. That control can shade into pressure. When a caregiver got everything in a new will, judges look at whether the person was truly free to choose.

Several states go further. They flip the burden of proof. In those states, the caregiver must prove the gift was honest, instead of the family proving it was not. This is a big deal. Typically, proving undue influence is hard because the pressure happens behind closed doors. A statutory presumption removes much of that problem.

The exact rule, the dollar threshold, and the filing deadline all vary. For example, Illinois uses a flat dollar figure, while California uses a timing window. Here are five concrete examples so you can see how different the numbers are.

State Caregiver-specific rule (exact figure) Deadline to challenge the will
California Prob. Code §21380: gift to a “care custodian” of a dependent adult is presumed the product of fraud or undue influence if the will was signed while care was given, or within 90 days before or after. Caregiver must rebut by clear and convincing evidence. 120 days after the will is admitted to probate, or 60 days after notice, whichever is earlier
Illinois 755 ILCS 5/4a: transfer to a non-family caregiver worth more than $20,000 is presumptively void, for instruments signed on or after January 1, 2015 2 years from the date of death
Nevada NRS 155.097: transfer to a caregiver of a dependent adult is presumed void; rebutted by clear and convincing evidence or an independent attorney’s “Certificate of Independent Review” under NRS 155.0975 3 months after notice of the will’s admission (NRS 137.080)
Florida No caregiver-specific statute. Fla. Stat. §733.107 shifts the burden when someone in a confidential relationship gets a substantial benefit and actively procured the will 90 days after service of the notice of administration (20 days if formally noticed earlier)
Texas No caregiver-specific statute. Family must prove undue influence under general probate law 2 years after the will is admitted to probate

What to Do First (Step by Step)

Step one: get the will. Ask the probate court clerk in the county where your loved one lived. Once a will is filed, it is a public record in most cases. Step two: note the signing date and the witnesses. Step three: build a simple timeline. When did the caregiver start? When did visits get harder? When did the will change?

Step four: look for the old will. A prior will matters a great deal. If a caregiver got everything in a new will but an earlier will split things among children, that contrast is powerful evidence. Step five: ask who drove your loved one to the lawyer’s office, and who paid the lawyer. As a result of these questions, patterns often appear fast.

Time-sensitive: Will-contest deadlines are strict and short. Florida gives 90 days from service of the notice of administration. California gives 120 days from admission to probate. Nevada gives 3 months. Missing the window usually ends the case no matter how strong the facts are. If probate is already open, contact the probate court clerk or a licensed attorney this week — not next month.

Step six: do not sign anything the caregiver hands you. Waivers and family settlement agreements can give up your right to object. In most cases, you can ask for time to have a lawyer read it first.

How to Protect Yourself and Keep Records

Records win these cases. Start a single folder, paper or digital. Put the new will, any old will, and the death certificate in it. Add bank statements, deed changes, and beneficiary forms. Undue influence rarely stops at a will. Typically, you will also find new joint accounts or a new power of attorney.

Medical records matter too. They show whether your loved one had dementia, delirium, or heavy pain medication near the signing date. You may be able to request these as a personal representative or through the court. Also save texts, emails, and voicemails. Screenshot them. Do not delete anything, even messages that make you look bad.

Write down what you remember now, while it is fresh. Include dates, who was present, and exact words when you can. For example, note the day you were told not to visit. When a caregiver got everything in a new will, these small details often become the strongest part of the story. Ask other relatives and old friends to write their own notes separately.

When to Get Help (Probate Court or an Attorney)

Start with your state’s probate court self-help center. Many state court websites (.gov) have free self-help portals with forms, deadlines, and plain-English guides. Court clerks cannot give legal advice. However, they can tell you the case number, the filing deadline, and what documents are already on file. That information is free.

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Next, try free legal aid. LawHelp.org and your state bar’s lawyer referral service can point you to local programs. Many areas also have a Legal Services for the Elderly or an Area Agency on Aging office. If you suspect financial exploitation of an older adult, you can also report it to Adult Protective Services or your state attorney general. Those reports are free and can trigger their own investigation.

Call a licensed probate litigation attorney if probate is open, if the estate is large, or if a deadline is close. Many take these cases on contingency or a hybrid fee. Ask about fees in the first call. If a caregiver got everything in a new will and your state has a presumption statute, say so — that fact often changes how a lawyer sizes up the case. Nothing here is legal advice for your situation, so check with your state’s court or a licensed attorney.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can a caregiver legally inherit everything?

Yes, in many states a caregiver can inherit, especially if there was a real, long relationship. However, several states presume the gift is invalid and make the caregiver prove otherwise. Whether a caregiver got everything in a new will fairly depends on your state’s rule and the facts around the signing.

What is “undue influence” in plain English?

It means someone used pressure, isolation, or control to replace the person’s real wishes with their own. Courts look at the victim’s vulnerability, the influencer’s authority, the tactics used, and whether the result was unusual. Cornell’s Legal Information Institute (law.cornell.edu/wex) has a short plain-English definition.

Does it matter that the will was notarized or written by a lawyer?

It helps the caregiver’s side, but it does not end the question. Courts still ask who found the lawyer and who was in the room. In most cases, a will drafted by an attorney the caregiver chose gets more scrutiny, not less.

Bottom line: Learning that a caregiver got everything in a new will is painful, but you have real options and the law already takes these situations seriously. Move quickly on the deadline, gather your documents, and lean on your state probate court’s free self-help resources first. Then talk with a legal-aid office or a licensed attorney about what makes sense for your family.

Sources & How to Verify

The information on this page is drawn from official government and court sources. Estate, probate, and tax rules change, so always confirm the exact figure with your state’s court, statute, or a licensed attorney.

  • IRS — Estate Tax: irs.gov — federal estate-tax rules and exemption
  • Find free legal help: lawhelp.org — free and low-cost legal aid in your state
  • Cornell Legal Information Institute: law.cornell.edu/wex — plain-English legal definitions
  • Your state probate code & court self-help portal: search “[your state] probate code” and “[your state] probate court self-help” for the exact law and forms

Content last reviewed September 2026. If you notice outdated information, please contact us.

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